DEALING W/NEGATIVE PEOPLE VS POSITIVE PEOPLE

 HEY Y'ALL, Y'ALL KNOW I KEEP IT REAL TO THE BEST OF MY ABILITY

WHEN YOU'RE DEALING WITH NEGATIVE PEOPLE

• THEY ARE ALWAYS TALKING NEGATIVELY ABOUT THEMSELVES OR OTHERS
• LOOK DOWN ON YOU AND YOUR FUTURE ENDEAVORS
• THEY DON'T WANT TO SEE YOU DO BETTER THAN THEM
• THEY TRY TO TELL YOU WHAT TO DO
• THEY ARE PESSIMISTS
• THEY COMPLAIN A LOT
• THEY ENJOY SECRECY
• THEY LIVE IN THE DEFAULT POSITION<<< READ THAT AGAIN
• THEY NEVER MOVE OUTSIDE THEIR COMFORT ZONE
• THEY LOVE THE WORD, "BUT"
• THEY PUT A NEGATIVE SPIN ON GOOD NEWS

WHEN YOU'RE DEALING WITH POSITIVE PEOPLE

• THEY PRACTICE GRATITUDE
• ALWAYS PRAISE YOU FOR YOUR ACHIEVEMENTS
• STOP THE NEGATIVE SELF TALK
• LOVES TO CELEBRATE WITH YOU
• WILL DO SOMETHING NICE FOR YOU
• TALKS ABOUT POSITIVE THINGS ABOUT YOU, FOR YOU, & WITH YOU
• THEY DON'T NEED OTHER PEOPLE APPROVAL
• THEY ARE CONFIDENT
• THEY ARE RESPONSIBLE FOR THEIR OWN HAPPINESS.

IN OTHER WORDS, YOU HAVE THE AUTHORITY TO BUILD YOUR OWN HAPPINESS, YOUR OWN LIFE, YOUR OWN WAY OF LIVING EITHER CHOOSING TO BE BY YOURSELF OR AROUND OTHERS. 

"YOU CANNOT HAVE A POSITIVE LIFE W/A NEGATIVE MIND"

TAKE CARE OF YOUR BUSINESS

 HEY Y'ALL, I'M BACKKKKKKK!!!

WHO HAVE TIME FOR DRAMA? NOT I

WHO HAVE TIME TO STAY UP IN OTHER FOLKS BUSINESS? NOT I

WHO HAVE TIME TO BELITTLE OTHERS BECAUSE THEY AREN'T WHERE YOU ARE IN LIFE? NOT I

WHO HAVE TIME TO CONTINUE TO LIE ABOUT NONSENSE? NOT I

WHO HAVE TIME TO KEEP SPENDING MONEY ON IRRELEVANT ITEMS? NOT I

THIS IS THE YEAR TO PROSPER, TO BUILD YOUR CREDIT, TO SAVE FUNDS FOR BIGGER AND BETTER THINGS.

I KNOW MAJORITY OF US DIDN'T GET TAUGHT THIS BACK IN SCHOOL, BUT I'M HERE TO TELL YOU NOW.

STAY IN YOUR OWN LANE, AND DO WHAT YOU HAVE TO DO TO ACHIEVE YOUR GOALS.

• WORK IN A FIELD THAT YOU LOVE 
• BUILD YOUR CREDIT
• FIND YOUR HOME TO YOUR LIKING
  
• BE HAPPY WITH YOURSELF BEFORE YOU LOVE SOMEONE ELSE
• COMMUNICATE WITH ALL BEINGS
• DON'T BE EMBARRASSED ABOUT HOW YOU ARE FEELING
• BE HONEST
• DON'T LIE TO MAKE OTHERS FEEL GOOD
• TAKE SOME TIME FOR YOURSELF
• SPEND TIME WITH FAMILY AND FRIENDS
• IF YOU HAVE KIDS, TAKE A FAMILY VACATION
• DO SOME DIY CRAFTS
• CREATE A GARDEN
• HAVE A SPA DAY( MEN AND WOMEN)
• FORGET HOW PEOPLE THINK ABOUT YOU
• LOVE GOD, PRAY WITH GOD, TRUST IN GOD
• MOST IMPORTANTLY LOVE YOURSELF

SOMETIMES WE MAKE IF DIFFICULT ON OURSELVES BECAUSE WE MAY BE GOING THROUGH TRIALS AND TRIBULATIONS, BUT IF IT WASN'T FOR THAT, HOW WOULD WE KNOW IF IT WAS A MISTAKE TO LEARN FROM.

SEE SOMETIMES YOU HAVE TO SIT BACK, OBSERVE AND LISTEN.

WHEN I SAY TAKE CARE OF BUSINESS, TAKE CARE OF YOU. YOU ARE THE ONE WHO DECIDES WHAT GOES ON IN YOUR LIFE EITHER YOU LIKE IT OR NOT, EITHER ITS A LESSON LEARNED, OR ANOTHER MISTAKE YOU WILL HAVE TO GO THROUGH. BUT YOU HAVE TO KEEP STRIVING AND FIGHTING EVERYDAY TO MAKE IT TO YOUR DESTINATION!

WITH THAT BEING SAID, Y'ALL HAVE A BLESSED DAY. LOVE Y'ALL :)

WHEN YOU HAVE FAITH, NOTHING SHALL FAIL

 HEY GUYS, BEEN AWHILE. YES I KNOW. BUT I'LL BE COMING BACK SLOWLY BUT SURELY.

I JUST WANT TO SPEAK ON SOMETHING VERY BRIEF TODAY, BECAUSE I FEEL LIKE IT NEED TO BE SAID, AND SOME PEOPLE NEED TO HEAR THIS (TECHNICALLY SPEAKING READING THIS), BUT Y'ALL KNOW WHAT I MEAN !

IF YOU HAVE FAITH, AND YOU BELIEVE IN GOD, WHY WORRY?

WHY HAVE YOUR HEAD DOWN?

WHY WOULD YOU BE ANGRY AT YOURSELF OR OTHERS?

WHY WOULD YOU BE SAD?

WHY WOULD YOU CRY?

WHY WOULD YOU BELITTLE YOURSELF?

WHY WOULD YOU NOT GIVE YOURSELF CONFIDENCE AND SELF ESTEEM?

WHY WOULD YOU TALK ABOUT OTHERS JUST TO MAKE YOURSELF FEEL BETTER?

WHY TREAT YOUR FAMILY AND FRIENDS ANY KIND OF WAY BECAUSE YOU ARE GOING THROUGH TRIALS AND TRIBULATIONS?

WHY SIT ALONE?

WHY HAVE SUICIDAL THOUGHTS?

I'M SAYING ALL OF THIS BECAUSE YOU ARE NOT ALONE, GOD IS HERE WITH YOU EVERY STEP OF THE WAY.

YOU ALSO HAVE PEOPLE WHO LOVE AND CARE ABOUT YOU.

IF YOU ARE HAVING SOME TROUBLING TIMES, PLEASE TALK TO SOMEONE BECAUSE YOU CANNOT FIX THIS ON YOUR OWN. READ THAT AGAIN. YOU CANNOT FIX YOUR SITUATION ON YOUR OWN!!!

"GOD DOESN'T GIVE YOU THE PEOPLE YOU WANT, HE GIVES YOU THE PEOPLE YOU NEED. TO HELP YOU, TO HURT YOU, TO LEAVE YOU, TO LOVE YOU AND TO MAKE YOU THE PERSON YOU WERE MEANT TO BE."