YOUR RULES!

GRAND RISING YOU ALL. HOPE YOU GUYS ARE HAVING A GREAT DAY SO FAR.

I JUST WANT TO SPEAK ON SOMETHING RIGHT QUICK.

PEOPLE HAVE BEEN ASKING ME THIS A LOT RECENTLY, AND I JUST WOULD LIKE TO SHARE MY OPINION.

AGAIN, I SAY THIS, YOU HAVE CONTROL OF WHAT YOU DO, HOW YOU DO IT, WHEN YOU SHOULD DO IT, WHY YOU SHOULD DO IT, CAN YOU DO IT, AND WHO YOU CAN DO IT TOO!! 

NO ONE SHOULD BE IN YOUR BUSINESS BUT YOU AND WHOMEVER YOU DECIDE TO ALLOW IN YOUR BUSINESS<< READ THAT AGAIN.

I KNOW SOMETIMES OUR ANGER MAY GET IN THE WAY DUE TO EMOTIONS, BUT IF YOU SPOKE IT, YOU ALLOWED IT TO HAPPEN. 

IF YOU DIDN'T DO ANYTHING TO STOP THE SITUATION FROM WORSENING, YOU ALLOWED IT TO HAPPEN

IF YOU LET PEOPLE SAY WHATEVER THE HELL THEY WANT TO SAY TO YOU, AND YOU DIDN'T DO ANYTHING ABOUT IT, YOU ALLOWED THAT TO HAPPEN.

PEOPLE PLEASE STOP CONTRADICTING YOURSELF.

STOP SAYING THAT YOU ARE GOING TO STOP IT, FIX IT, TEND TO IT WHEN YOU ARE STEADILY PROCRASTINATING OR LETTING PEOPLE WORDS GET YOU DOWN.

I UNDERSTAND THINGS HAPPEN, AND YOU ARE PROBABLY WONDERING, "WHY IS THIS HAPPENING TO ME?' 

BECAUSE YOU ARE GOD'S CHILD, AND YOU ARE GOING THROUGH A TEST.

OH, Y'ALL DON'T HEAR ME !!! 

THESE TRIALS AND TRIBULATIONS, THIS ANGER, THOSE NEGATIVE THOUGHTS, WHEN YOU SAY THE DEVIL IS GETTING TO ME, WHEN WE LOOK DOWN ON OTHERS, WHEN WE TALK ABOUT OTHERS, WHEN WE ARE SINNING, WHEN WE ARE NOT PLEASED IN GOD EYES BECAUSE WE ARE DOING SOMETHING THAT WE SAID WE WASN'T GOING TO DO, BUT DID IT ANYWAY., WHEN A RELATIONSHIP OR MARRIAGE FAILS, AND YOU BLAME YOURSELF...

OH THIS IS GETTING JUICCCCYYY!!! 

WHEN YOU ARE HAVING ISSUES IN YOUR FAMILY, AND NOTHING SEEMS TO BE GOING RIGHT, WHEN YOUR COWORKERS ARE CONSTANTLY STAYING IN DRAMA, AND ALWAYS INCLUDING YOU, WHEN LIFE DOESN'T SEEM TO BE GOING IN THE DIRECTION YOU WANT IT TO GO... 

DO Y'ALL HEAR ME!!

BABY, YOU ARE GOING THROUGH A TEST.

WHAT'S THE OLD SAYING? GOD GIVE HIS TOUGHEST BATTLES TO HIS STRONGEST SOLDIERS. YOU MAY NOT GET YOUR ANSWER AROUND THE TIME YOU WOULD LIKE, BUT IT WILL COME. 

ASK AND YOU SHALL RECEIVE. 

MATTHEW 7 COVERS 3 CRUCIAL TOPICS. 

1. THE FIRST ONE BEING ABOUT JUDGING OTHERS.
2. THE SECOND ABOUT SEEKING FOR HEAVENLY INTERVENTION
3. THE THIRD ON DOING UNTO OTHERS AS YOU WOULD LIKE THEM TO DO UNTO YOU.

Y'ALL BE BLESSED :)

HEALING !

 HEY YOU GUYS, WELCOME BACK.

I FELT THIS IN MY SPIRIT, THAT SOMEONE NEEDED TO HEAR THIS TODAY.

SOMETIMES SOME PEOPLE HEAL QUICKLY THAN OTHERS, AND FOR THE REST, IT MAY TAKE A BIT OF TIME.

YOU MAKE THE CHOICES IN YOUR LIFE, NOT ANYONE ELSE.

DON'T LET ANYONE TELL YOU, THAT YOU AREN'T READY, IF YOU ARE.

DON'T LET ANYONE TELL YOU THAT YOU'RE MOVING TOO FAST, IF YOU'RE MOVING IN YOUR OWN PACE.

DON'T LET ANYONE TELL YOU THAT YOU CAN'T LOVE ANYONE ELSE, JUST BECAUSE THE ONE YOU WERE WITH DIDN'T WORK OUT.

GOD ALWAYS HAVE A PLAN, AND HE NEVER FAILS.

WHEN ONE DOOR CLOSES, ANOTHER ONE OPENS, AND THAT IS SOOOOOO TRUE.

YOU ARE IN CONTROL OF YOUR LIFE>> READ THAT AGAIN..!

BUT NOW I WILL HEAL AND MEND THEM. I WILL MAKE THEM WHOLE AND BLESS THEM WITH AN ABUNDANCE OF PEACE AND SECURITY. - JEREMIAH 33:6

HE WILL ALWAYS PROTECT YOU :)

IT IS OKAY TO LET GO !!

 HEY Y'ALL, WELCOME, 1ST POST OF THE YEAR

SORRY I'VE BEEN AWAY, BEEN DEALING WITH A LOT, BUT I'M COMING BACK STRONGER THAN EVER. JUST WAIT

SO WHEN I SAY LET GO

• LET GO OF THE PEOPLE THAT MEAN YOU NO DAMN GOOD, PERIOD!
• LET GO OF THE PAIN FROM YOUR PAST THAT YOU FEEL THAT IS BOTHERING YOU IN YOUR PRESENT LIFE
• LET GO OF NEGATIVITY IN YOUR LIFE, TAKE A RISK, BE FREE AND HAVE FUN
• LET GO OF DRAMA, AND THAT HURT THAT IS LINGERING AROUND BECAUSE THE DEVIL WILL TRY TO GET TO YOU, AND THROUGH YOU.
• LET GO OF REMINISCING WHAT YOU COULD'VE, WOULD'VE, OR SHOULD'VE
• LET GO OF THAT ANXIETY THAT IS BRINGING YOU DOWN

PEOPLE ALWAYS HAVE TOLD ME YOU ARE STILL SO YOUNG TO BE GOING THROUGH SO MUCH IN YOUR LIFE TIME, AND YOU STILL HAVE A LONG WAY TO GO TO MAKE THAT CHANGE FOR YOU, AND YOUR LIFE.

YES YOU HAVE OPTIONS, WHO CARES WHAT PEOPLE SAY ABOUT YOU OR THINK ABOUT YOU...

ARE THEY LIVING YOUR LIFE?

HAVE THEY STEPPED IN YOUR SHOES?

ARE YOU WILLING TO LET GO, AND START ALL OVER AGAIN?

I REPEAT !!!! DON'T BE AFRAID TO START OVER, I'VE ONCE SAID THAT, BUT THERE IS SOMEONE OUT THERE FOR YOU THAT IS WILLING TO DO ALL AND EVERYTHING YOU ARE WISHING FOR

TAKE THAT NECESSARY TIME TO HEAL YOUR HEART, SO YOU CAN FULLY MOVE ON TO SOMETHING OR SOMEONE BETTER. IT IS OKAY

STOP DOUBTING YOURSELF, LOVE YOURSELF, CARE FOR YOURSELF, AND STAY TRUE TO YOURSELF<<< ALWAYS>>>

THERE IS A WAY TO MAKE ALL YOUR DREAMS COME TRUE, IF YOU JUST TRY.

DON'T LOSE YOURSELF BECAUSE YOU ARE AFRAID TO MAKE THAT FIRST STEP OF TRYING SOMETHING NEW. 

*GOD CAN RESTORE WHAT IS BROKEN AND CHANGE IT INTO SOMETHING AMAZING. ALL YOU NEED IS FAITH. JOEL 2:25*

BE HAPPY FOR OTHERS REGARDLESS OF THE SITUATION

WHATEVER TRIBULATIONS YOU ARE GOING THROUGH, PRAY ABOUT YOUR SITUATION, AND BE HAPPY FOR OTHERS. LET ME BREAK IT DOWN.......

WHEN YOU ARE TRULY HAPPY WITH YOURSELF, YOU CAN BE HAPPY FOR OTHERS

IF YOU ARE AT A PLACE IN YOUR LIFE WHERE YOU ARE;

HOLDING GRUDGES

ISN'T HAPPY WITH WHO AND WHERE YOU ARE

DOESN'T LIKE YOUR JOB

ISN'T HAPPY WITH YOUR FRIENDS OR FAMILY

YOUR HEART ISN'T FULFILLED

YOU ARE BLAMING OTHERS FOR YOUR FAULTS, AND WHAT SHOULD HAVE HAPPENED BUT DIDN'T WHEN YOU WANTED IT TO HAPPEN

ISN'T HAPPY FOR OTHER PEOPLE SUCCESS AND HAPPINESS.

BEING MISERABLE

HAS HATE IN YOUR HEART

HONEYYYYY, YOU NEED TO ASK GOD TO HEAL YOU COMPLETELY FROM ALL BURDENS, BECAUSE AS LONG AS YOU HAVE THESE BURDENS, YOU CANNOT MOVE ON WITH YOUR LIFE, AND TRULY FIND HAPPINESS.

(PSALM 30;5) FOR HIS ANGER IS BUT FOR A MOMENT, HIS FAVOR IS FOR LIFE, WEEPING MAY ENDURE FOR A NIGHT, BUT JOY COMES IN THE MORNING.❤

DEALING W/NEGATIVE PEOPLE VS POSITIVE PEOPLE

 HEY Y'ALL, Y'ALL KNOW I KEEP IT REAL TO THE BEST OF MY ABILITY

WHEN YOU'RE DEALING WITH NEGATIVE PEOPLE

• THEY ARE ALWAYS TALKING NEGATIVELY ABOUT THEMSELVES OR OTHERS
• LOOK DOWN ON YOU AND YOUR FUTURE ENDEAVORS
• THEY DON'T WANT TO SEE YOU DO BETTER THAN THEM
• THEY TRY TO TELL YOU WHAT TO DO
• THEY ARE PESSIMISTS
• THEY COMPLAIN A LOT
• THEY ENJOY SECRECY
• THEY LIVE IN THE DEFAULT POSITION<<< READ THAT AGAIN
• THEY NEVER MOVE OUTSIDE THEIR COMFORT ZONE
• THEY LOVE THE WORD, "BUT"
• THEY PUT A NEGATIVE SPIN ON GOOD NEWS

WHEN YOU'RE DEALING WITH POSITIVE PEOPLE

• THEY PRACTICE GRATITUDE
• ALWAYS PRAISE YOU FOR YOUR ACHIEVEMENTS
• STOP THE NEGATIVE SELF TALK
• LOVES TO CELEBRATE WITH YOU
• WILL DO SOMETHING NICE FOR YOU
• TALKS ABOUT POSITIVE THINGS ABOUT YOU, FOR YOU, & WITH YOU
• THEY DON'T NEED OTHER PEOPLE APPROVAL
• THEY ARE CONFIDENT
• THEY ARE RESPONSIBLE FOR THEIR OWN HAPPINESS.

IN OTHER WORDS, YOU HAVE THE AUTHORITY TO BUILD YOUR OWN HAPPINESS, YOUR OWN LIFE, YOUR OWN WAY OF LIVING EITHER CHOOSING TO BE BY YOURSELF OR AROUND OTHERS. 

"YOU CANNOT HAVE A POSITIVE LIFE W/A NEGATIVE MIND"

TAKE CARE OF YOUR BUSINESS

 HEY Y'ALL, I'M BACKKKKKKK!!!

WHO HAVE TIME FOR DRAMA? NOT I

WHO HAVE TIME TO STAY UP IN OTHER FOLKS BUSINESS? NOT I

WHO HAVE TIME TO BELITTLE OTHERS BECAUSE THEY AREN'T WHERE YOU ARE IN LIFE? NOT I

WHO HAVE TIME TO CONTINUE TO LIE ABOUT NONSENSE? NOT I

WHO HAVE TIME TO KEEP SPENDING MONEY ON IRRELEVANT ITEMS? NOT I

THIS IS THE YEAR TO PROSPER, TO BUILD YOUR CREDIT, TO SAVE FUNDS FOR BIGGER AND BETTER THINGS.

I KNOW MAJORITY OF US DIDN'T GET TAUGHT THIS BACK IN SCHOOL, BUT I'M HERE TO TELL YOU NOW.

STAY IN YOUR OWN LANE, AND DO WHAT YOU HAVE TO DO TO ACHIEVE YOUR GOALS.

• WORK IN A FIELD THAT YOU LOVE 
• BUILD YOUR CREDIT
• FIND YOUR HOME TO YOUR LIKING
  
• BE HAPPY WITH YOURSELF BEFORE YOU LOVE SOMEONE ELSE
• COMMUNICATE WITH ALL BEINGS
• DON'T BE EMBARRASSED ABOUT HOW YOU ARE FEELING
• BE HONEST
• DON'T LIE TO MAKE OTHERS FEEL GOOD
• TAKE SOME TIME FOR YOURSELF
• SPEND TIME WITH FAMILY AND FRIENDS
• IF YOU HAVE KIDS, TAKE A FAMILY VACATION
• DO SOME DIY CRAFTS
• CREATE A GARDEN
• HAVE A SPA DAY( MEN AND WOMEN)
• FORGET HOW PEOPLE THINK ABOUT YOU
• LOVE GOD, PRAY WITH GOD, TRUST IN GOD
• MOST IMPORTANTLY LOVE YOURSELF

SOMETIMES WE MAKE IF DIFFICULT ON OURSELVES BECAUSE WE MAY BE GOING THROUGH TRIALS AND TRIBULATIONS, BUT IF IT WASN'T FOR THAT, HOW WOULD WE KNOW IF IT WAS A MISTAKE TO LEARN FROM.

SEE SOMETIMES YOU HAVE TO SIT BACK, OBSERVE AND LISTEN.

WHEN I SAY TAKE CARE OF BUSINESS, TAKE CARE OF YOU. YOU ARE THE ONE WHO DECIDES WHAT GOES ON IN YOUR LIFE EITHER YOU LIKE IT OR NOT, EITHER ITS A LESSON LEARNED, OR ANOTHER MISTAKE YOU WILL HAVE TO GO THROUGH. BUT YOU HAVE TO KEEP STRIVING AND FIGHTING EVERYDAY TO MAKE IT TO YOUR DESTINATION!

WITH THAT BEING SAID, Y'ALL HAVE A BLESSED DAY. LOVE Y'ALL :)

WHEN YOU HAVE FAITH, NOTHING SHALL FAIL

 HEY GUYS, BEEN AWHILE. YES I KNOW. BUT I'LL BE COMING BACK SLOWLY BUT SURELY.

I JUST WANT TO SPEAK ON SOMETHING VERY BRIEF TODAY, BECAUSE I FEEL LIKE IT NEED TO BE SAID, AND SOME PEOPLE NEED TO HEAR THIS (TECHNICALLY SPEAKING READING THIS), BUT Y'ALL KNOW WHAT I MEAN !

IF YOU HAVE FAITH, AND YOU BELIEVE IN GOD, WHY WORRY?

WHY HAVE YOUR HEAD DOWN?

WHY WOULD YOU BE ANGRY AT YOURSELF OR OTHERS?

WHY WOULD YOU BE SAD?

WHY WOULD YOU CRY?

WHY WOULD YOU BELITTLE YOURSELF?

WHY WOULD YOU NOT GIVE YOURSELF CONFIDENCE AND SELF ESTEEM?

WHY WOULD YOU TALK ABOUT OTHERS JUST TO MAKE YOURSELF FEEL BETTER?

WHY TREAT YOUR FAMILY AND FRIENDS ANY KIND OF WAY BECAUSE YOU ARE GOING THROUGH TRIALS AND TRIBULATIONS?

WHY SIT ALONE?

WHY HAVE SUICIDAL THOUGHTS?

I'M SAYING ALL OF THIS BECAUSE YOU ARE NOT ALONE, GOD IS HERE WITH YOU EVERY STEP OF THE WAY.

YOU ALSO HAVE PEOPLE WHO LOVE AND CARE ABOUT YOU.

IF YOU ARE HAVING SOME TROUBLING TIMES, PLEASE TALK TO SOMEONE BECAUSE YOU CANNOT FIX THIS ON YOUR OWN. READ THAT AGAIN. YOU CANNOT FIX YOUR SITUATION ON YOUR OWN!!!

"GOD DOESN'T GIVE YOU THE PEOPLE YOU WANT, HE GIVES YOU THE PEOPLE YOU NEED. TO HELP YOU, TO HURT YOU, TO LEAVE YOU, TO LOVE YOU AND TO MAKE YOU THE PERSON YOU WERE MEANT TO BE."